Read this really nice book over the holidays..its called Bounce: How Champions are made
http://www.flipkart.com/books/0007363621?_l=CJHVEqJO3veuHytbACc9dw--&_r=JguruvnG7uFYIQl5riWhSA--&ref=141e7102-3320-4874-909d-946d1bf134a7&pid=5kw3fj33ne
The book analyzes the path taken by high achievers in sports (and some other fields but mainly sports) to try and figure out what it takes to excel
Takeaways from the book:
1. High achievers have put in long hours of practice - typically 10 years or 10,000 hours to get to that level of performance
2. They challenge themselves to take on things beyond their reach
3. Their practice tends to focus on specific areas that they want to improve on.
4. For parents, the message to send to children is that their achievements are due to hard work and not intelligence. When you teach a child that hard work is the secret to doing well, the child thinks that anything is possible with hardwork. When you focus on intelligence, the child thinks that some areas are beyond them or if they cant do something, they think it is because they are not good enough.